The Reality Formula for Kids teaches children that they have two choices: to accept Reality, or to resist it. The first choice leads to happiness; the second choice leads to unhappiness.
Co-created by Lynne Forrest, highly esteemed author, and her protege, Danielle Alvarez-Greer, The Reality Formula For Kids™ is the kid and family version of The Reality Formula™. The Reality Formula for Kids™ summarizes the 10 Guiding Principles of Reality©. It's simply the way we see Life when we are in alignment with Reality -- a guiding influence that reflects our own happy or unhappy beliefs.
Join us, and learn from the creators of The Reality Formula for Kids™ as we share the truth about Reality with families and individuals around the world.
The Reality Formula™For Kids is indeed unique among the many models currently available concerning conflict resolution and bullying solutions for kids. But what exactly makes it so much more effective than what’s out there already?
To those who have experienced The Reality Formula™ For Kids at home or in their classroom, the difference is obvious. They have experienced first-hand the simple, yet highly effective process that involves teaching children how to resolve issues on their own and how to address situations that used to stymy them.
Others notice the difference in children who are exposed to this process, in the way they interact respectfully with the world and are eager to explore and learn about it. Happy kids are obvious by their self-confidence, and their ability to express themselves. Often our parents are asked, “How do you get your kids to cooperate so well? “Tell me your secret!” We have found that this approach works well with kids from the age of 4+. The Reality Formula™ For Kids works with kids who have special needs such as Asperger’s, ADD, ADHD, etc… and with children who have been diagnosed with defiant behavior issues, or who are dealing with difficult home situations of divorce, grief, depression, addiction, etc.
We have discovered a set of steps, based on ancient principles of Truth, i.e. Reality, that is mind-changing, and life transforming for kids who believe the confused assumptions they took on early in life and never questioned, and, that now rules their feelings and reactions towards life. It teaches them how to befriend Reality and work with it, thus creating healthy, happy kids, rather than kids who are in constant resistance to life around them. We have successfully shared these steps with parents, educators, and professional healthcare providers of all kinds for several years and proven its success in real life families, classrooms, and in extremely challenging situations, with young adults who have had to face life and death health issues. The Reality Formula™ For Kids WORKS every time it is used.
Here are the basic concepts introduced by The Reality Formula™ For Kids: we call them …
The Seven Steps to a Happy Kid©
1. Observe your thoughts. It is your thoughts that determine your feelings not what’s happening around you.
2. Practice accepting Reality. Reality is simply “what is.” Resisting or trying to control it does not work, but we can choose how we will think about it.
3. Choose to befriend Reality. Look for how it serves you even when its not the way we want it to be.
4. Choose happier thoughts to replace the old, familiar, unhappy ones.
5. Be kind. When you are unkind to yourself or to them, you feel bad, and they do too.
6. Own your part In every encounter. When we learn from our mistakes we grow.
7. Be respectful. Stay in your own business, and out of the business of others..